missfrifri

Frankly, this is something that bores me. And sort of annoys me. It’s directed to you, girls. (Or well, some of you.)

When I’m in Jönköping and I meet someone (girls) that I haven’t seen for ages and I ask them what they’re doing now, the answers that I get from almost everyone tend to be something like:

“Me and my boyfriend are moving in together.”

“We’re getting married!”

“Me and my boyfriend just broke up.”

“I’m engaged!”

All of the above are obviously important things that you wanna tell the other person (or the world) about, they’re big steps and exciting news. But- what happened to telling me what you actually work with, or what you’re studying? I never hear a guy that I haven’t met for a while start the conversation by only talking about how he’s moving in with his girlfriend. And I mean, if nothing else- can’t you at least tell me about both things? Now that gals can and are actually allowed to do it all, wouldn’t it be fun to, you know, talk about it?

Seriously, you bore me.

I wanna know what you’re doing, not who you’re doing.

Or as Linnea said the other day: men will come and go, but a university degree is forever.